To evolve is to develop gradually from something simple to something a little more complex.  Let every life experience  cause you to reflect and grow no matter how deep the cut. You see we have to be determined to do something different, to be something different no matter the connection. Being connected to people is one thing but being connected to the right people is the greater thing. The acts of maturity will cause you to realize that in everything the only choice you have is to grow and become better. So with every blow  allow yourself to be pushed to exceed your limits of change, and therefore through the pain of uncertainty allow yourself to become. Remember feelings are like a vacation they come and they go just like people. So no matter who you are connected to no matter what continue to go from simple to complex and allow yourself to evolve. Never stop growing!